Sexual assault and rape are not conducted solely by physical violence. In law and lived experience, sexual harm often occurs through violations of autonomy that may not leave visible injuries but are no less real. Consent must be freely given and properly informed. In other words, each individual has the right to make a determination that is not maliciously influenced such as by force, fear, fraud, coercion, surprise or exploitation of their incapacity. Recognizing the many ways consent can be violated is essential to justice, survivor validation and recovery, and meaningful prevention.
Understanding consent dynamics helps dismantle harmful myths about what sexual assault “looks like” and ensures that laws, institutions, and communities respond to harm based on reality rather than outdated myths. Below are common influences which negate that consent could have taken place regardless of what the victim said or did at the time of the act.